Some women don't know how to orgasm, while others need little more than a whisper in order to reach orgasmic heights. And then there are the others -- those women who have the capability to squirt their juices all over the bed, the floor, or even you.
Although we'd like to believe that every woman is capable of reaching
such heights of sexual ecstasy, unfortunately, there are many women out there who disagree. And if they're not willing to open their minds to the idea of ejaculating, then that's their prerogative.
Nevertheless, if you've got yourself a woman who is very sexually in
tune with herself, and would be willing to let you manipulate her vagina until she ejaculated all over you, then today's tip is going to leave you soaking wet.
Before she starts squirting
A woman's ejaculate is expelled from the urethra, the same place where
urine comes out from. And although studies have found that the clear
liquid is not urine at all (the juice is released from the Skene's
glands, or urethral sponge), if your girl doesn't have complete control over her PC (pubococcygeus) muscle, there is a chance that she may actually pee all over you.
If this does end up happening, be cool about it. Think about it; it's
normal for her to feel as though she's about to urinate when she's about to ejaculate. If she tries to hold it in, she won't ejaculate; she has to let go. If she does end up urinating, and you trip out on her, she'll never try this again. Enjoy the golden shower, and don't freak out.
Let her go with it; eventually she'll learn the difference between the
sensations. And although you can manipulate her vagina all you like, if your woman is inhibited, then chances are she won't be able to reach this pinnacle of sexual satisfaction. She may even get annoyed by the feeling, so make sure she wants it.
OK, so she wants it. If you're about ready to start seeking the liquids, read on to find out what you have to do.
Use your fingers
While there are some women who can ejaculate through clitoral
stimulation, or through other sex play (penile penetration or even
breast-sucking) , the most effective way to achieve this outcome is
through G-spot manipulation with your hands.
She'll be soaking you in no time...
Obviously, we're not implying that you should head directly for the
G-spot. Start out with some foreplay and lick her clitoris first -- get her "pumped," so to speak. Once she begins to get excited, insert two fingers inside her vagina, palms facing up. But don't stop licking her clitoris (unless, of course, you can't do two things at a time).
About an inch or two inside the vagina, you will likely hit a round ball of skin -- that's the G-spot. Keep stroking the area with pressure; it may start to become more solid; just keep doing what you're doing.
Tip: Use your other hand to gently press down on the area between her
navel and her
mons pubis (her pubic mound) for increased stimulation.
If she tells you that she feels like she's about to urinate, assure her that it's near impossible for her to pee and that she should just let go. Although her instincts may be to hold back, reassure her with
encouraging words like, "Oh yeah, I can't wait for you to drench my
hands."
As she begins to reach orgasm and starts to ejaculate, prepare yourself to either be greeted by a light gushing liquid or an actual drenching spray. Both are normal and the amount of liquid can reach anywhere from a teaspoon to a cup. Have some towels handy.
After she gushes like crazy, chances are she'll want a break because her vagina might become extremely sensitive (think of the head of your penis after you ejaculate). So, don't go for a second round right away unless you get the distinct impression that she's ready for more.
Keep getting the goods
Achieving the almighty squirt may not be as simple as described above;
it may take some experimentation, persuasion and different positions. As well, you may want to try stimulating other parts of her body while you head inside.
For example, have her lie down on the bed, face up, and kneel next to
her (your body should be facing her belly button). While your fingers
are stimulating her G-spot, use your other hand and your mouth to
manipulate her nipples.
As well, you could also opt to rotate between penile penetration and
finger penetration in the doggy style position.
And, of course, there are women who can ejaculate through sex alone, so place her on a surface where her vagina easily meets your penis and
penetrate her, making sure only your penis connects your bodies.
And if all else fails, you can always call on a vibrator to help your
woman get in touch with her juicier side.
Keep on simulating
Every woman has the ability to reach incredible heights of orgasm. It's up to you to convince her to let go of her inhibitions and squirt all over you.
Until next time, get that juice.
